In desperate need of advice, separation looming!

[confusedinpa]

Sad09

You really should try read all the post/advice that I had gotten in my threads. We have really gotten into similar conversations with our wifes.

I will tell you what everyone has told me - don't leave. She is the one who wants the separation, so she should leave.

That is a difference in my situation. My wife wants to leave but doesn't want to do so until there is a custody agreement as well as have it figured out what to do about our house. So she is pushing me to do something about that.

What's more confusing is that there are wild swings in her attitude - just this past weekend, she says that she can not ever see our relationship working and she tired of being nice to me and doesn't want to do anything with me, then yesterday she told me her mom can watch the kids this weekend so we can go out.

Just hang in there. The minimum is that you become a better person for you and your kids.

Hang in there. It is hard.