All,

Thanks again. Pup I really think what you said is what this is about for us. I can't sit here and be married to someone else's GF. I love her too much to ride that roller coaster. I need to walk my own path and she her's. She will NEVER (very stubborn) value our relationship until it is really gone.

I would love to reconcile with her in the future, which I believe would serve God's will equally. Spiritually and scripturally I can do this. I don't want this but I believe it is a necessary step.. I have prayed about it incessantly and have been given my answer.

I will still be here. I need to give back whatever I can as it has been given to me..

V


***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***

Me: 43
W: 38
SD-15
S(s): 12,9,7
Separated-2/14/2009
My sitch