I second what Puppy said about waywards lying to everyone. My W lied to her individual counselor about her A for 4 months or so. The one person who you're supposed to tell your deepest darkest secrets to.

They desperately want everybody to be on their side and to paint themselves as the victim.

Me: 33
WAW/MLC: 33
M: 4+, T: 10+
Separated: Nov 08
A#1: Oct 08 - Jan 09 (exposed and ended)
A#2: Feb 09 - ?
1: http://tinyurl.com/mrmistakes
2: http://tinyurl.com/ckch9t
3: http://tinyurl.com/stillwaters3