ha ha. Good point re thread title. Old banger has it's MOT on Wednesday so once that done and house moved in, I will sort the title out !!!
Yeah, things going well. Not sure serious is the right word, it's more fun right now and I like it that way. We enjoy each others company but it's still relatively early days I suppose, 3 months now.
You so have to get an ipod, I'd been putting it off but can't leave it alone now and it makes the running so much easier.
Bit tired today as my early night last night didn't happen due to being to busy watching films and winning money online at the poker again !!! lol
Few strange texts yesterday from MOT35 and spoke to her last night. She has got proper jealous and upset about me and a good friend of mine who is female. I was out drinking with work friends on Friday and said friend was hammered so I got her out the pub and offered a place to stay as she lives a fair way away. So we went to my sisters and in the end she just left rather than staying and got an ex to pick her up. Anyway, I told MOT35 and thought we'd dealt with it Sat night and I saw her Sunday too, but then it was still playing on her mind and she spoke to her best friend who said she would not be comfortable with it either. I only found this out when I rang her last night and she didn't want to speak to me really or at least tell me why she was off but I got it out of her, we spoke a bit and left it as I wanted to sleep as really tired.
So this morning I send the morning u ok text, get one back and then another basically calling us off as she can't handle stuff anymore with all the other stuff going on she is dealing with. Thing is, little old me does understand but I can't help that it hurts. Why does it always seem to hurt when you actually think it will happen anyway ???
So I 'think' I'm single again. Not to sure as it's one of those not what she wants and I know it and even said she needs to follow her head instead of her heart for once.
Bit sad today, will go for a long run tonight and start to pack clothes that wont get worn before the weekend ready to move out. Just hope car gets through it's MOT tomorrow cheap
I'm ok, just a bit sad !!!
oh, slight question as this is bugging me. If you were in a new relationship and said partner had a really good friend of the opposite sex, would it bother you ? and on that, was what I did wrong ? (in honesty I know MOT35 had an issue with my relationship with said friend !!!)
Sorry about the jealousy induced reaction. I don't want to sound too corny but relationships are built on trust. Does she have any reason to not trust you? Have you said or done things in the past? If not, I think she is overreacting....anyone who would break up a relationship over this either was not really "into you" or has some issues. Perhaps if you can explain your point of view and she hers, you can come to some type of understanding...if she meant alot to me, I would give it a good try. Otherwise, walk and don't look back.....unless i have missed something here.
Few texts back and forth and I played it cool, just being nice and then get a long......I can't do this, I love you blah blah blah, I'm just scared of how I feel. I'm not jealous or insecure and you make me that which scares me. Went and met up just now for 30 mins, had a little chat and things ok again.....I feel like some teenager with all this and some people will think I'm mad but I think she is worth it and things been so good. We've both said before this would of been so much easier meeting a few months further dow the line, but it is what it is.
I'm very bad at saying and wording things and she picks up on them and thinks I mean something else. Whhenever we meet up it's cool, we can talk about things properly and things never get out of hand.
So, things gone full circle again. Course of true love never runs smooth I guess !!!
Cheers John and no, not done anything for her to question me, but the only person she ever felt like this about (12 years ago, not her ex) did, so think I got tared with his brush a bit. Think he really hurt her and she is scared I will do the same so thinks jump now, but then can't do it.
Hey Arthur, just a little speed bump! Glad things are back to normal. I guess you will be a little more "careful" next time...of course you can do what most of us do .... put her on a need to know basis.
