Walk Away German Wife (WAGW)

[PortlandDad]

Yesterday was beautiful; the sun was out almost all day. I didn't actually get around to car shopping, but I was surfing looking for some deals. I think I'm going to wait until the weekend to actually go to the dealers.

Me and the kids have our first family session with the C tonight. At this point, I think it is more for them than for me. I'm feeling really good lately. My S17 called my W yesterday (no surprise because he does it every day!) and talked to for about 30 mins. He said she is sounding like her old self more and more. Seems like the fog clears a little more each day...

Of course, I'm not expecting any major shifts in her position any time soon. She is very stubborn (when she wants to be) and she hates to admit that she is wrong about anything. I'm looking for a way that her coming home wouldn't be viewed as a "loss" to her. I have suggested to her in the past that since she wants to be a nurse so badly that she could start here in Oregon with a CNA certification and then build on that. Seems to me like dusting that suggestion off and presenting it as a possible way forward might be seen as a way for her to return with some dignity.

Of course, with such a beautiful sunny day yesterday, I did let my mind wander back to her for a few minutes. It actually made me smile instead of feel bad. She is an amazing woman, despite all her flaws.

Hope everyone here has a good day today!