Hi Maria, (((()))), if you can't have civil coversations at this point and that is so normal at this stage then do as others have suggested at least for now. It is somehow impossible to believe that we cannot talk to those we loved without getting angry and we feel we have failed yet another hurdle or at least I did, but to stop it escalating,speaking only through your lawyer or email seems the best option. It will not always be like this, but it takes a long time before "normal" conversations can be resumed,for now the hurt is just too raw. Take care.