Yoyo,

My MIL is not so open about her support of OW. She is swayed a little to my side (with kids) but she did meet the OW and make kissy face. (Makes me wretch.) Anyway, we both know that they are always going to be on our H's side, no matter what they do because blood is thicker than water. They will always forgive their own sons. My MIL keeps making excuses for him to me over the phone. I try not to disagree with her. Just listen and be her friend and sympathize. But I really think she can't see my side at all. She says, "I never asked you to forgive him," but in the same breath she would be making excuses about why H can't make it work with me anymore. Very frustrating and fruitless conversations. Just tune it out.


Me:39
H:40
S:9
D:7
First Bomb ONS:June 07
Second Bomb OW: March 08
Separated: March 08
M:15 yrs
T:18 yrs
H deep into A with OW
Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09

'Yes, I can.'