Maria, to protect yourself could you ask him to limit his contact with you to text message and email only for now. Convo only about the kids and any appointments with the L? It would probably help you both, I know it did for me and my xH.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!