I should have read this yesterday. Long story short, his ex OW from his EA is sort of nutz with a very nutz exboyfriend. Yesterday morning someone emails me her criminal record. At first I had no idea what it was. Then I figured it out and was just furious. I am sure her ex sent it to me so I would send it to her boss, whom I am very close to. I think he wants her fired so she has to depend on him financially again and thus, getting back together with him. I am not really sure and really can't prove who sent it to me. The only thing I did with it was delete it. And I told my H about it. I have been harassed by the ex for a bit now, but not a lot and once again, I can't prove who it is, it's really annoying. So that happened yesterday that just made me mad. Then my H questions me "Have you told me the truth about those two crazies?" That is what set me off. I just want to be left alone, he brought these people into our lives. Then last night we get into it and we start talking relationship and it continues again this morning via text and phone conversations. I even asked him if he's going to file which is SO STUPID STUPID STUPID. I even heard my DB coach yelling stop it! Stop it! But I didn't stop it. And he said what he has in the past, "I'm not married, haven't been in months." And "I will file as soon as we can afford it." So now, huge back slide. I hate this. I'm bummed and just want to go home and crawl into bed.
