Yes, the not telling his sister about the ow is bugging me
Now why do you thin that would be? Maybe he doesn't want to tell her because then he would be seen as the bad guy. A's breed in secrecy.....and just your C knowing still makes it secret.
I think you are right not to beleive your H when he says he has cut off contact.....he hasn't exactly been honest yet has he.
As for MLC....well don't most people seem to go through a transitional crisis when an A is involved?
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength