Tawnya - Why did I know you'd find that funny too? \:\)

Lemonsnap - yeah, it has been a crazy week! Thanks for checking in. I may need some Reiki the next trip home so keep in touch. \:\)

Sam - I've decided I'm not waiting for actions. I'm moving forward with my life. If and only if xBF starts DOING something will I give him any serious thought.

2gthr - Thanks for stopping by. I really don't think I'm that strong but I appreciate your kind words. Believe me, I was not like this at the beginning. Ask Puppy. But I came to a point when I realized that I have to put me first because no one else will. And I saw him in a completely different light. If he's going to bail on me now, imagine what it would be like if I got cancer or in a serious accident and he bailed because he couldn't handle it. Thank goodness I know his true character now.

If you love somebody, set them free.
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