I wanted to pop by and say hello! I've been out of town for a while. I'm glad you have made the right decision for yourself. You sound good and confident with your decision. I like your attitude of focusing on the good parts of your life and not letting your M pull you down. I have also been doing this and it feels great!
How do you what date your D is happening? Is that your trial date? I am still waiting to be served (H filed in TX also). I am deploying for 12 mos in June and trying to figure out the timeline in TX...
I'll be following along with ya :-)
Me:28, first M H: 33, second M Married: 08/08 Bomb: 10/08 H filed D and deployed: 12/08 Served: 04/09 I deploy: 07/09 Hearing date: 08/09