I think you're doing awesome. It's funny how they actually become uglier like their personalities. For my W, when we were separated, she developed really bad acne, lost a ton of weight and dry hair.
Thanks Stuck! That made me crack up ( i had to laugh at the bad acne and dry hair..lol) My H has started gaining weight, and he has gotten alot of acne too come to think of it! That is because I used to be his personal Esthetician (skin care specialist) and he doesn't get that luxury anymore!
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And then we ask them if they are okay and they tell us that it's from the stress of the sitch. Well hello? Who put us in the sitch in the first place? Sometimes it's so laughable if it wasn't so sad.
I know!! SO many times I want to say that to him but I just bite my tongue. He thought he was so unhappy with me, and now he looks more unhappy then I have ever seen him before since he has moved out. I just sort rolled my eyes on that one
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I can see you going back to the strong, positive girl you probably were before you got married. I think he wanted to see the paperwork because he was having flash second thoughts. Well his L has them, so he could always stop them if he wanted to. You gave him what he wanted, let him deal with the consequences.
I am very proud of you.
Well I am happy to hear this. I have been working hard..and its funny- a few months ago I thought I would just die and now I see that I will survive. Funny how time changes things.
I am thinking the same thing about the papers too. Why does he always let his pride get in the way? I didnt tell him yet that I mailed them in today. That will be interesting when I do!
