Its' been awhile since I posted, although I do still peak in and check on others.
I've been dating OW now for 8 months. Supermom went on a vacation to Disneyland w/ OM and left our 5 year old behind. We didn't tell Abby where except "out of town". It's STBX's b-day today and last night Abby and I were talking and Abby was very frustrated that she didn't get to see her mom and her b-day. Almost everyone I talk to is flabergasted that a mom of a 5yr old would go to Disneyland without her. I'm amazed but whatever.
Tonight OW was coming over for dinner and Abby gets along great with her. She even told her she "loved her" on Sunday. So I had dinner made and as soon as we sat down Abby went into "brat" mode. It was totally out of the blue because Abby has been an angel the last three nights. I got so frustrated with everyone; Abby's mom for doing this, Abby of course and OW because she was like "she doesn't want me here, I should go" and left. I just got a reality check on what I have to deal with....Abby's mom is going to always be her-first, Abby acting out and not telling me why, and OW (or future OW) having to deal with this.
I just wanted a nice quiet dinner with the 2 most important people and it went to SH@#@#@TTTT!
Any advice or suggestions are very welcome.
M 35 W 28 D 4
Bomb 4/28/08 Found out about PA 05/14/08 Separated 5/25/08 (not legally)
