Hey my friend, you cant let go because you still love him, because this is not how you thought your life would be, because he is the father of your children and you are human.
There is no timeframe for being able to completely let go, it comes when it comes.
No one knows what the future holds. The only thing we could control is ourselves. So, try to fill your life, enjoy your kids, find yourself. And then little by little, you will let go.
I think setting the foundation of friendship was good if for nothing else than for him to have a safe road back to his children when he is ready.
Hang in there, Peace. He is not done with his journey, that is why he is with her.
