I think you're doing awesome. It's funny how they actually become uglier like their personalities. For my W, when we were separated, she developed really bad acne, lost a ton of weight and dry hair.
And then we ask them if they are okay and they tell us that it's from the stress of the sitch. Well hello? Who put us in the sitch in the first place? Sometimes it's so laughable if it wasn't so sad.
I can see you going back to the strong, positive girl you probably were before you got married. I think he wanted to see the paperwork because he was having flash second thoughts. Well his L has them, so he could always stop them if he wanted to. You gave him what he wanted, let him deal with the consequences.
I am very proud of you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.