Tpas,

Absolutely, i think of that often. Sometimes I wonder if I am just waiting for my ex to ask to come back in order for me to say "NO".

In my dreams this is what happens. After I say "NO", I am then able to move on with my life.

It all scares me.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11