Absolutely, i think of that often. Sometimes I wonder if I am just waiting for my ex to ask to come back in order for me to say "NO".
In my dreams this is what happens. After I say "NO", I am then able to move on with my life.
It all scares me.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11