As for her, if you are willing to seriously talk, I will tell you anything you want to know, but she is aware I still have feelings for you.
Sounds more like "I will tell you anything you want to HEAR" to me! Also sounds like he's not telling OW the truth either... "feelings"?? BUT he's starting to lean your way. He takes a step in your direction, you take a step back, keep him coming until you have him where you want/need him to be for you to reconsider things. Gucci, PDT and you are 200% right!! He needs to show MORE!
Sounds more like "I will tell you anything you want to HEAR" to me! Also sounds like he's not telling OW the truth either...
Bingo.
I think if I were to forward his letter to OW (which I would never do!) she would be shocked at its contents.
It's not just that he needs to show more Sam, it's that he needs to show ANYTHING. It's been nothing but words so far.
He's out of town for work this week so I'm guessing I'll hear from him somehow on Friday. Not over the weekend because god forbid it takes any of his time away from OW.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
As for her, if you are willing to seriously talk, I will tell you anything you want to know, but she is aware I still have feelings for you.
Sounds more like "I will tell you anything you want to HEAR" to me! Also sounds like he's not telling OW the truth either... "feelings"??
I am 99.99% sure that he has not told his girlfriend the truth. In fact, I have never personally heard of a single instance where a currently-wayward spouse did tell the truth to their OM/OW about the nature of their current relationship with their husband or wife.
I am 99.99% sure that he has not told his girlfriend the truth.
I am 100% sure Puppy. A small (vindictive) part of me wants to forward his messages to her so she will feel what it's like to be betrayed, but I won't show her the kindness of honesty.
Karma is a bitch.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
Just saw this quote on a mailing list and it struck my funny bone:
Men have slow reflexes. In general it takes several generations later for them to understand. -Stanislaw J. Lec, poet and aphorist (1909-1966)
I think it was supposed to mean humankind, but it just fit my current sitch so well! No offense intended to the men here, present company excluded of course.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
Pearl - WOW! I go away for a week and can barely catch up with all that's happened with you. I just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you and hoping that you are finding some peace and calm for yourself in the middle of the whirlwind craziness! (((((Hugs)))))
lemonsnap
Me - 29 H - 29 M - 6 months T - 8 years ILYBNILWY - 1/24/09 Recovery begins 3/1/09
I have been reading but not commenting, you are getting a lot of advice and opinions. My question is, "what do you want?" It seems to me that if you know what you want then it is easier to know if he/you/R is going that direction or not. What do you want from him/ this R/ for yourself? Answer these questions and it may be easier to "know" how things are going and no more roller coaster.
It's a bit unclear to me whether or not you want him back or want to work on the R. You say you do and don't. Which is it? Not trying to be a pain - I'm soooo confused.
