Many of you know that MIL has not been a very nice person to me through this all. For you all that don't know the story, she became friends with OW and was all for the H and her ending up together. She never was very active in my DD's lives. DD20 said that MIL came by office yesterday. She was telling DD20 that she had gone to the doctor. DD20 told her that she wished she would talk her Dad into going to office. He has been having some chest pains. DD20 has been trying to get him to go to doctor. MIL replied,"Yes,I know he needs to go. He is under a lot of pressure from the stress of his work and his personal life." DD20 said, "I wanted to tell her that his personal problems were his own fault!" DD20 and her grandmother have never had much of a relationship and when MIL says something like this it makes DD20 more put out with her.




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon