Hey G,

The reason why I suggest the direct approach is, well.

IF you are worried about him running then you do have something to lose...you know?

Do you want to be wondering and going through all that crap again, just wondering what he is thinking?

Thats why I suggest the direct questions. IF you really don't have anything to lose.

Good work on all that you have done by the way. : )


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