Hi there Lan - sounds like you're back on a more even keel now...and kerryk is helping you to steady your rudder!

It sounds like you do have a Lan Plan - perhaps just needs a bit more self-promotion?

KerryK - your tale about your nephew and your question will make us Brits smile a bit! See - http://www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/oversexed-overpaid-and-over-here.html

This is a phrase those of us, shall we say, a certain age, will have heard - especially those of us who have parents who grew up through or were part of WW2!

Not that its part of our collective memory - just was an observation at that time borne out of hard and difficult times - for all!!! I will qualify that a bit - as my Dad told me...if the US hadn't come in when they did - we would have been stuffed - so the collective view is "thank-you!!!" It was just a bit of humour which I dare say - was needed desperately at that time!

Still - made me chuckle!

Best - GFI