So Cinco....can you tell us more specifically what this means? Are you saying you are going to work on becoming whole again, and then present yourself to her and see how the marriage may improve after that?

I am just curious because I love what you are saying, but I am wondering if you also have a plan? Not that you need one, but usually having one helps us stay on track.

I'm so glad, if for nothing else, that you have had this opportunity to grow and reflect. If you had left Mrs. Cinco last year when you came here and were so frustrated, you would have never forgiven yourself for it later, because you would have second guessed yourself for ever! I'm so very truly amazed how you have grown since then.

You are a great man and a great husband. I still pray every day that you and Mrs. Cinco will stay together forever....here's hoping.

DQ