Well, I found out that when you have laryngitis/flu walking 4 hours is prob. not a good idea. Didn't even think of calling in sick today b/c I've only been on this temp job for a week. The L's office called me today and I got out of going in there b/c of the way I sounded. Got a hearing on getting the kids evaluated on the 23rd. They put in the motion they want the evaluator to determine if public school is a viable option for the kids, and the tester when I talked to her said she can't actually do that. So my L was going to have her testify to that. Seems like a waste of hearing and $$ to me, but I guess that's what Divorce is all about.

H emailed me late yesterday (I got it late last night) that he wants me to pick up the kids, I guess at his apt. I have zero desire to ever see that. Wonder if he'll figure it out. I emailed a place by where I was today and said he could drop off the kids there or at our house whichever he prefered. He calls and leaves a vm for me today to call so I can pick them up somewhere more convenient for him. I called and could barely talk but whispered in this gruff trucker voice I have today that I have laryginitis and can't talk and he can pick up the kids where I suggested (which was closer for him) or the house whichever he prefers and then hung up (I never have done that but couldn't talk and yeah I was poed at his self-absorption. I was feverish and thinking I was going to throw up and pass out and he's upset that I can't pick the kids up at the apt. He's such an ass!

He dropped off the kids and I was there. No how ya feeling or you gonna live or something most of us humans would say to each other. I mean I'm driving his kids around, some concern at least for them would be appreciated!

He emailed me why I didn't pick them up at the apt. I emailed him back explaining I was feeling very sick and just couldn't. Next week if I'm healthy maybe we could work out a halfway point b/w him and me and that would be fair. and said Thanks for understanding! (hah ) I was thinking today could a person actually be this much a jerk, or does he do it to make the D easier or something for him? I mean come on!!! Karen

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D18, S24