I know that I am the last person he will have truly bonded with because he no longer is capable of be able to give of himself in that way.
I also try to remember that my xH loved me as best he could. While I saw myself giving my 'all' to stay married, he also gave his all. Its just a different amount of 'all', not good, not bad. His choices were bad after he gave up (the A, etc), but before that, he gave all he could.
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Its funny, when I first came here I refused to believe that my husband was following the same script as everyone else.
Yup. Did that too.
I agree with Katie/Gypsy. Time for a new name....'healingheart' maybe...
