It's all about where your moral compass is, in my opinion.
So, glad to hear where you are - believe it or not, I LONG to be in that place, but it seems like W is just getting more and more emotionally involved.
I was just saying to Tawnya how it was funny that W called me - and was almost imploring me to change schools for the kids because of what happened to D8. She didn't even mention that she has 50% of the choice and responsibility, but she knows how I am. I was just thinking that she is actually showing respect - something that hasn't happened for a long time.
Oh, and I commented on how my private school education really helped me, and she said, "YOU would have done well anywhere you went, because you are so smart."
I don't know about that, but geez, compliments now?