I think the big thing that I got from the talk is the type or R with W that I am chasing isn't there, there is still somthing big between us but the perfect R isn't there. So at the moment I have revised my expectations to meet reality, which means to fill the void I need to do a lot more things for me.
One of the things which makes me see that if I lead W will follow, is the fact that we had a right old battle over me buying a new car where W wanted me to buy somthing very exspensive and I wanted a more affordable VW. Well I stuck to my guns and we had a very good week previously looking at cars. We've had this interlude and now next week W is still going to be following me around looking at cars.
Back to GAL at the start of the year I made my 2009 list, things to do, people to see, but I got side tracked from it by W and chasing her affection, so really I just need to get back to my list and work hard on that.
