By the way, let me know how you plan on dealing with the outside child situation. I wonder how my H and I can go forward with that. He also says that OW would leave if we get back together. I think that is one of his fears too. In hindsight I can see that I was trying to make him chose me over his son but I now know that is actually ridiculous and a set up for failure. I think the best course is to incorporate him into OUR lives. But H has to end that A in order for that to happen.
