[quote=ndsmhelp You are right about the waiting...I have been waiting for her, and will probably continue to for the foreseeable future.
I am not quite ready to become a walk away myself..although that thought does cross my mind on occasion.
Like her, I am comfortable and feel at home with her..in our home.. so unless things start going in a different direction I see no reason to push, pull or pressure her at this point...after all, what would I pressure her for after all this time. She has told me several times what she wants...she is just willing to wait for it. [/quote]
NDS,
This is where I am at also. Its a tough position to be in. Sort of like sitting at a "Y" in the road wondering which path to take. Only you know how long you will wait for her and only you can decide which path to take once you cannot wait any longer.
Give it more time you both are getting along great and ML the rest may come in time.