WAW - Very confused and devestated - pt 4

[confusedinpa]

I just remembered another thing that came up from my therapy appointment.

One of the things I was curious about was how when our counselor asked my wife if she still loved me, my wife seemed evasive. She talked about the negative feelings and how angry/hurt she was but even my therapist/counselor picked up on how she would not give a plain/clear answer.

My therapist thinks that she may deep down inside but is holding onto the anger/hurt so she doesn't feel it.

My wife will need to figure out how to find that again. I can't do that for her. All I can do is try to give her a reason to do that.

Meanwhile, I will to live my life and grow for a better tomorrow