I did not intentionally withhold sex as a punishment.
Hard to read intent, and good intentions are the golden bricks that pave the path to hell.
Doesn't matter what you intended, how did she perceive it? Not a fair question unless she told you. Perception forms reality, meaning what I perceive forms the basis of my reality.
Sex is important to her. So you need to get over those issues you have if you want to be married to her, you know in the traditional marriage sort of way.
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It's not easy to get to a point where one truly is ready to leave the M.
No sh it? : ) Preaching to the choir brother man.
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Isn't that ultimately the threshold the LBS must reach?
I believe it is one of the possible paths if the MLC is unrepentant.
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The book I'm reading will talk about this further.
...goodie...
The read and experiment, read and experiment thing... I hope you are giving enough time to see the effects of your experiments, instead of giving up too quickly and moving to the next chapter...IF you do that don't you think it makes you look...fickle, uncommitted?
You guys dance, and haven't danced together since your outburst...What would happen if you went up and danced with her and no wasn't an option?
Reading books about being assertive...man just do it.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
