Hi All, I am struggling this week.
XW finally confirmed my assumption. XW and OM are seriously dating. XW is also taking d5 around OM. I still think its to early. She still tells d5 that OM is just a friend. Last few times I pick d5 up, she always talks about time spent with XW, OM and his d. This kills me!

I told XW my opinion and she says she respects it but disagrees.I just don't think its going to last. OM is 14 years older than XW and is basically being a sugar daddy.
We got into deep relationship talk and XW told me there will never be a chance to reconcil and I need to let go and move on.

I seriously think she wishes I would find someone to date, and we could be good friends. She tells me, and I can tell she misses the friendship, just doesn't want me to expect more.

I truelly need to detach, but to be honest I have been very poor at doing so with my numerous attempts so far.

I just find myself getting lonelyb and depressed.

Any suggestions on getting over the hump???


Keep the faith!!
One Goal!
Thanks
CZ
me: 34
XW: 29
D: 5
T: 13
M:9
Dday: Sep 18, 08
joint legal and physical custody of child
XW recently told me, she d me, cause she tought I would abandoned her!