Hi All, I am struggling this week. XW finally confirmed my assumption. XW and OM are seriously dating. XW is also taking d5 around OM. I still think its to early. She still tells d5 that OM is just a friend. Last few times I pick d5 up, she always talks about time spent with XW, OM and his d. This kills me!
I told XW my opinion and she says she respects it but disagrees.I just don't think its going to last. OM is 14 years older than XW and is basically being a sugar daddy. We got into deep relationship talk and XW told me there will never be a chance to reconcil and I need to let go and move on.
I seriously think she wishes I would find someone to date, and we could be good friends. She tells me, and I can tell she misses the friendship, just doesn't want me to expect more.
I truelly need to detach, but to be honest I have been very poor at doing so with my numerous attempts so far.
I just find myself getting lonelyb and depressed.
Any suggestions on getting over the hump???
Keep the faith!! One Goal! Thanks CZ me: 34 XW: 29 D: 5 T: 13 M:9 Dday: Sep 18, 08 joint legal and physical custody of child XW recently told me, she d me, cause she tought I would abandoned her!