Wondering how to handle things

[mishka422]

Yup! Thought stopping....BIG HUGE RED STOP SIGN IN YOUR HEAD!

I am definitely of the opinion that he does it because of his own insecurities and that is why he controls you in this way. It's all done subconsciously of course. He isn't making a conscious effort to be such a PITA, it comes naturally....isn't that reassuring?

At least your H thinks you have the option of meeting and falling in love with someone else in the future! My H has told me he knows for certain that I will be alone the rest of my life because of my trust and self image issues. Unfortunately, he's absolutely right. C'est la vie. *sigh*

Have a blessed day Kissak. When all else fails, PRAY!