Kissak,

I think he is also projecting his own ideas of being "friends" with other women onto you. He doesn't like the idea of you getting attention from men and probably forming a "friendship" of your own.

My H is not a gelouse type, but yesterday he admitted to me that he felt uncomfortable thinking of me left "unprotected" against attention I might be getting. Given that we were separated for 6 months and he was living with OW full time and the attention was not nesessarily unwanted, LOL, that was very telling.


I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders
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M 46
H 45
D 17
M/T 23
Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06
Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07
Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08