I went to the bank yesterday. H is still trying to freeze/block our joint accounts. Which puts him in contempt of court, again.

The teller said I was the happiest person she'd ever met who's getting divorced. I told her it's been a very long time coming. I told her that the tears, sorrow, heartache, & doubts came years & months ago.

It's time to smile and live life the way God intended me to. Men (and women) are that they might have joy. I'm finding joy within myself.


M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.