I'm just going to hug him and tell him I'm appreciative of his decision to stay in the house, no matter his intention, etc.
you posted this on SMW's
I have no idea about your sitch, and where your H is in his path, but I'm not sure that hugging him would be the appropriate thing to do. Unless, touching is one of his top 5LLs. Or if perhaps this would be a 180 for you. Certain things like hugging, or saying ILY, I think can be read as pressure. So just wanted to mention that.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."