MLC or OW My Heart is Ripped Apart

[pearlharbr]

I would agree that nice isn't always what it's cracked up to be. I'm not advocating turning into a stark raving b!tch, just having a backbone and standing up for oneself. (I am definitely a b!tch at times but it's helped me through some tough times. Working on keeping it to a minimum.)

I'm glad to hear you do enjoy activities alone. I was talking to a girlfriend who lives in another city about going to a concert. She said it's coming to her city too but she doesn't have anyone to go with. My response, so what? It's a concert, not like you're going to talk to anyone while it's going on. I hate it when people give up things they really want to do because they won't go alone. All throughout my R I went to things by myself if xBF didn't want to go. I understood that we had different interests but I wasn't willing to give mine up. I did try to find others to go to the theatre with me, but I didn't find anyone so I got my own subscription.

Ok, getting off my soapbox since I'm preaching to the choir.