Hi PM, glad you are feeling a bit better. I went into a slump starting at Valentine's Day and it took me weeks to overcome that depression.

At least your H has not served you D papers. That is something positive. Mine seems to have agenda set. Move out 10/1, waited till after the holidays, served me in January, and now trying to proceed with D. I worry he will marry OW. But hopefully this is where the stumbling blocks will happen.

They all go into that adult disneyland state of OW who adores them, spending money, going out,-- it is like when your kid goes off to college the first semester and they go nuts, BUT the reality starts to catch up with them.
It is not glamourous or fun taking out someone else's garbage or cutting someone's lawn, not seeing your kids, losing everything you built for years over some bimbo. Its a shame.

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09