I don't think it's too late in your situation either.
It looks bleak, but if you puruse the boards here, you'll see that many of the success stories also looked bleak.
She changed her mind once. She may do so again. In the meantime, GAL. Change yourself.
And thanks for the encouragement. I hope you stay encouraged as well.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."