While I'm not usually one to give legal advice, I would NEVER advocate that someone do a "collaborative" settlement, and give up full custody!, when there is active adultery going on. In my case, I filed for FULL CUSTODY, and was willing to work backwards towards 50/50 from there. But there was no way I was going to put my boys in the custody of a woman that was meeting up in dark parking lots to have sex in her boyfriend's truck.
