Dear JJ, When I read over your posts, I see how you are able to refocus and get back on track (with some help from your friend, SLH). I think the "real" JJ, is the one that creates positive goals and then follows through. When you have a plan, it seems you have more of a "can-do" perspective. Am I reading that right?
By the way, StillLovesHim is a gem, as she is walking alongside you in a very supportive way. Thanks, SLH!
JJ, if you knew for certain that A was not going to be around this month and there was no way you could contact him or be able to connect (let's assume he's in Iceland :o), would you go about these last 2 weeks of "going dark" differently than the first 2 weeks? I would encourage you to take some time to really ponder that. After you ponder, let me know, OK?
Cold snowy hugs to you! (Spring is coming, right?) Laurie
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