2 words: Passionate Marriage. He doesnt want to ML to you, he wants to "do you and be done by you", he wants to have amazing sex and he doesnt realize he probably isnt getting it from her either. He just feels the novelty and the excitement. BUT, what he is really after is CONNECTION. Read the book. It might help. Read it together if possible. Heck!! go meet the guy who wrote it. He does consultations in 3 sessions one each day for couples that visit from abroad. You love him, you still have so much love inside. Do what it takes. Your H needs help. He wont be able to stabilize alone, if he isnt guided somehow. He tried before. You cant get away from a spider. He is in deep grief. I feel sorry for him and upset for you...
*And this is where the amateuer C, packs her bags and goes home to her unresolved mental issues...*
