RED....
Buy the book...
I am not / was not a big "believer" but I will tell you this.. Doing these L.D has changed ME.I am not sure if it is so much just the LD but also a little NMMNG and GALing and DBing all thrown in together. AND faith... faith in yourself, faith in your spouse..And faith in God or Buddha or whoever / whatever you believe in.
My wife is not a believer, She does not know that I am doing these LD's. But I think she has seen a change in me and I too have seen a change in her.
Heck at least if will give you something to do for 40 days..

Take care Red.. We have come along way.. I remember those nights you and I stayed up late together.. (Here that is).. We talked allot.
Get the book..
Dr Love

Love is not a place
To come and go as we please
It's a house we enter in
And then commit to never leave


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know