Stress, WAW and life in general II

[confusedinpa]

AJM,

Sounds like our situations are very similar. Mine is a little more extreme as she filed for divorce on Jan 9th, but it will take 2 years to finalize if I don't agree.

My wife started to sleep in our spare bedroom on 3/3. It was a "traumatic event" for me, as I was surprised when I went to bed to find out she wasn't there. I didn't handle it well, but got myself back in control after a couple of hours - pursuing, pushing relationship talk, etc.

Just this weekend she said that she felt that after 2 months of searching for a reason to change her mind, she hasn't found one so she feels that the relationship will never work and wants to move out as quickly as possible. Major setback.

I also feel that we are starting to grow further distant. We had gone out on date nite a couple of times since the bomb, but I get the sense now that she doesn't want to do things with me that doesn't involve the kids. I'm not sure what to do either. I've gotten a lot of good advice from good people on my thread. My problem is that I listened to them as well as I've listened to my wife over the years.

Maybe I'm denser than most guys, but it's just starting to sink in. I'm just hoping its not too late.

Stay in there and hang on!