Try something different. Don't pursue at all!! Not one bit unless its an emergency. It hasn't done you one bit of good so far and he did notice when you pulled away.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
