For some reason I can't help but feel like I'm going to be miserable and she's going to be happy as a lark.
You'll be as miserable as you WANT to be. You continue to give her power. You continue to enable her.
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In one of our last MC sessions she had said, "I need to figure out why I pick the men I pick."
I can answer her question. She picks enablers. And when she doesn't get her way she emotionally beats the sh!t out of them. She picks men that allow her to drink and take care of her while she does so.
As long as you still love her and still care, you will continue to circle the drain. Lovingly detach. Sitting in the middle of this is not going to make it better.
Only you can pull your a$$ out of this. What set this depression off? Change the dialogue in your head - you are the only one that has any influence over that.....
