Worried about how to act in counselling tonight.

I want to know where our marriage failed so I can understand what it is he sees in this girl.

I'm going to try be strong,calm, understanding and level headed.

I will ignore my heart screaming why are you doing this and will not curl up in a ball and end up admitted to a psych ward.

I'm better than that.

H 36 2nd marriage
me 32 1st marriage
no kids