Sorry, I know I was melty woman, asking him how he is doing.

But he left here crying. (I've only seen him cry 2-3 times in 8 years) And I believe that was genuine. As much as I hate what he has done to me and our marriage, I do think he's a mess and he knows it. I'm not making excuses for him, I know it's his own fault. But I still care about my H, no matter what he's done. That is why I asked him how he is doing.

Now that I got those few thoughts across to him (when he ends the affair, we can talk), I am back to the plan.

I will regroup.

By the way, what is a transparency plan?

M:36
H:36
M 3 Y
T 8 Y
No kids
Bomb 6/30/08
PA
I filed 9/29/09
D final 1/22/2010