I agree keeping busy is good. But don't forget to process your feelings as well at the same time. You need to think things through, otherwise, you would be 'stuck' and then one day it will hit you all at once and catch you unawares.
So don't be avoidant, I know you haven't been so you are doing OK.
Did you DB coach say what you would do if you make conversation with Wee Man and then your S gets all quiet and shuts you out? Sorry, that's my sitch and I don't know what to do so just curious.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09