Hi MsM,

I'm not willing to waste the prime yrs of my life living in limbo. I am now pushing this along as fast as I can.

Deep down, I always knew I could never trust W again as this could happen again later on down the road and then I'd be back to square one all over again.

I have always been a great husband and provider. This is her loss. The best thing to come out of this is that I have regained a great love of myself again.

I think people around me are picking up on that..and are attracted to it.

I originally moved to the USA from NZ to marry W. I inherited all her friends and social circle.
Now I have the opportunity to totally rebuild a new social circle of my own choosing of quality fun people. Many of her friends are emotional vampires. I am far better off without them in my life.

I am very enthusiastic about my future and every day is just getting better and better.


H - 39
W - 38
M - 10 years, Dated 1
LYBNILWY - 5/17/2008
Moved out - 5/18/08
no kids - 2 cats