I'm not willing to waste the prime yrs of my life living in limbo. I am now pushing this along as fast as I can.
Deep down, I always knew I could never trust W again as this could happen again later on down the road and then I'd be back to square one all over again.
I have always been a great husband and provider. This is her loss. The best thing to come out of this is that I have regained a great love of myself again.
I think people around me are picking up on that..and are attracted to it.
I originally moved to the USA from NZ to marry W. I inherited all her friends and social circle. Now I have the opportunity to totally rebuild a new social circle of my own choosing of quality fun people. Many of her friends are emotional vampires. I am far better off without them in my life.
I am very enthusiastic about my future and every day is just getting better and better.
H - 39 W - 38 M - 10 years, Dated 1 LYBNILWY - 5/17/2008 Moved out - 5/18/08 no kids - 2 cats