I agree Yoyowife. They think they are so unhappy they need to escape their pain, that their escape will solve ALL of their problems. They know their actions will have impact but they've come to a point where they don't REALLY care. But hopefully Hope's H is now suffering the consequences of his choices and hopefully on his way to seeing the WHOLE situation, not just his own POV.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09